MemberJuly 24, 2019 at 9:18 pm
A similar story to most of you, I did the obligatory running at school and didn’t exactly hate it, but once I left school I didn’t really do must physical activity for a few years. I did a few Race for Life events and times varied from 38 minutes to 50 minutes I think.
I didn’t think I had any real desire to run, I admired the people who ran marathons and thought those that I passed on my way to work were a bit bonkers, but was happy to leave them to it.
Then in June 2017 I went on holiday to the Isle of Man with a large group, some of whom I’d not met before. One was Lee, who is now my boyfriend, and one was Emma, his mum. Emma had just run Edinburgh, and on being told this I think my words were something like ‘ahh, are you one of these crazy running people?!’
Just over two years later, I am now ‘one of those crazy running people’!! It started innocently enough with a Rough Runner event in May 2018, then a Gung Ho in June. Emma had been slowly convincing me I did want to run, and was training for the New Forest Marathon, and she mentioned that it wasn’t just a marathon, they did other distances too – and I found myself signing up for the 5k!
I’ve kept the competitive running ticking over, I think it’s worked out an average of one event a month. Until recently I’ve only really run once a week, as part of the warm up for Saturday lunchtime gym class (another change that came about as a result of knowing Lee and Emma!!), and I’ve kept plodding away and have seen my average times drop.
That’s all going to change soon, as I’ve seen 5k events turn in to 10k events, with a couple of 5 mile runs in there too. As a result of more sneaky persuading by Emma (she’s some kind of mind bender I’m sure of it!!) I have signed up for the Silverstone Half Marathon in November, so a 16 week training plan is in place ready to kick off on 5 August. I must be bloody potty!!
One good thing about all of this, Lee has been doing all the events too, and has just signed up for the Half, so there’ll be lots of support from both of them – although Lee needs to work on his motivational skills, as the way he delivers it isn’t always welcome!! 😂
AdministratorJuly 25, 2019 at 1:39 pm
Haha – welcome aboard Emma – why do I suspect at some point in your future you’ll get convinced to do a mara 🙂
MemberOctober 13, 2019 at 9:59 am
2015 was the start of my running journey. I had depression after having my child. I was obese and the doctor advised me to take more exercise to get outdoors it may help. So I decided to begin a walking programme.. I remember it was winter with snow on the ground and getting outdoors was my therapy. I was on medication for 6 months and in that time Id started feeling better about myself. I then decided I needed to try to lose more weight and feel energised with dealing pressures of motherhood. I wanted to be a role model for my child.
So I took up couch to 5km plan. NHS one as well as watching what I ate and the weight fell off. This was now my time for me. I was getting time to think, time to be me. I suppose running my escape from chaotic world.
I felt better, lost weight, improved all the time. I joined my local running club made connections with people. Yet there was something not quite right.. I overtrained became exhausted and felt bad I wasn’t progressing more.. I had personal issues at home, grief to process and major life obstacles to deal with so had to take a step back for a while to heal.
My running journey has not just been about running. It’s been about healing. Healing from PTSD anxiety which I still battle with from time to time. Yet running has always been my constant, my root, my calling to mother nature. It is healing.. It keeps me away from the doctors.
My community it has grown in a huge way. I’ve friend’s I never knew I had. I achieve things I never thought I’d ever be able to. It’s about being the best version of me that I can. Running is about making sure I take care of my physical body and my mind. If I can run, I can keep up with life instead of being in depression.
I’m returning to running from a period of healing, rest and reflection and sometimes it’s what’s needed at times. Who knows where my running journey will carry on taking me??? ☺☺
MemberNovember 9, 2020 at 9:48 am
Thought I may as well share my reasons for running being a newbie around here.
I’ve always been keen at sports. I played football and tennis at school, and football all the way through Uni and after that also. Used to go running with my Dad a fair but when I was younger too. Then it just seemed to fizzle out and I stopped (work, moving, too many computer games etc).
I started a new job in London and some of the guys used to run so I joined them and used to run virtually every day along the Thames. Then I changed jobs and had kids and it fizzled out again. I’d put on a fair amount of weight (for me) so one day after seeing myself in a work photo decided to do something about it and joined a gym, and started running occasionally (once a week maybe). I lost alot of the weight and felt fitter than I had in years.
Then back in August my Mum went into hospital and was diagnosed with lung cancer. As sheer coincidence a charity running challenge popped up on my Facebook feed for Cancer Research UK, so I signed up to run 60 miles in September. It was a very hard month, not only because of the running but also because sadly my Mum died on 16th September, only 45 days after first going into hospital feeling dizzy. However I carried on going and completed the challenge, and managed to raise over £1400 for Cancer Research. By then I found running enjoyable, a habit, something I just did most days. It kept me fit and also gave me some ‘me’ time away outside to think, plan things for both home and work, work towards a goal and also listen to alot of decent music!
Since then I’ve not looked back. As with many people I’m very self competitive and at first it was more about just doing a certain distance, but now as my fitness has improved it’s slowly turning into being about times, form etc. I’ve joined a running club (although Covid as derailed that abit for now) and also entered various virtual running races, as well as signing up for the Vitality 10k next year and enetered the ballots for the London Landmarks Half and the London Marathon (knowing my luck I’ll get picked first time! ). But I like the challenge. I just wish I’d stuck with running more when I was younger. But hey, I’m here now and loving it!
MemberNovember 9, 2020 at 10:56 am
Welcome to the bug, rather sad read and I’m sorry to hear about your mum. Thank you for sharing your reason for returning to running. Well done on raising so much money for charity and doing your mum proud, not easy loosing a parent ( lost 3 myself) it’s very difficult. So positive has come out of it, you now have a healthy lifestyle and enjoying doing something you once loved again. Enjoy the bug and sharing your running with us all 👍
AdministratorNovember 9, 2020 at 6:25 pm
Think we all lose the the sporting side of us when we hit the terrible teens, i know i did.
It’s great to have you on board and part of little but growing running community 🙂
That’s so sad with the loss of your mum, it must have been a huge shock and for everyone – but thankfully you had found running to help with your thoughts and to do some good for the charity too 🙂
HAHA – good luck with the London mara ballot – iv applied over every year for the past 7 (or is it 8 years) and still waiting to be wanted!!
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